So after a good bit of reading, it seems that in gay culture (male centric) identifying as “top”, “bottom” or “versatile” is kind of a big deal. Something I never thought about before and initially I don’t like the idea of being boxed into a category. One of my internet friends asked me this question so i considered it further.
Initially my sexual interests with other men was mostly oral. I have always enjoyed anal sex with my wife as (naturally) a “top”. A very intimate and different sensation. My recent experience of being a “bottom” with my wife may have created a proverbial monster. lol.
After some thought, as I answered my friend, bottom is definitely my preference. Keeping in mind, a great deal of trust and intimacy with someone would have to transpire first before I would consider that. But there it is.
On that note, bottoms up!