About Me & this blog
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This is where I feed my cravings…give them a safe place to rise to the surface for a while so I don’t implode into a puddle on the floor.
I live in the “Bi” closet in order to survive in the real world. I’m surrounded by Christians who are oppressive to those who do not share their narrow views and care more about their guns than affordable education or health care. Yes, I am an unapologetic liberal.
I have some dark subject matter that skirts with the fringes of acceptable reality. I am more willing to explore this “dark matter” because my wife has some “dark matter” too. It’s nice to be in good company where the darkest recesses of our minds can be shared without judgement or ridicule. By dark matter, I’m referring to my “infidelity fantasies”. By infidelity, I’m actually referring to “consensual” infidelity.
The idea of my wife having an intimate life external to me, quite frankly, excites me.
This journey of self discovery and giving in to my cravings brought me to a book written by Dr. David J. Ley, a Clinical Psychologist called “Insatiable Wives”. In this book he provides some biological, and scientific evidence that explains these feelings in men which have been historically “in the closet” until the anonymity of the web began surfacing these desires. I appreciate that “science” can be argued and is only as accurate as the research and testing methods. But reading this felt like it was a book written specifically for me. And it touches on things that go all the back to puberty and my early “relationships”. “Cuckolding” seems to be the General term for this particular kink and it is seemingly one of my biggest fetishes.
Our experiences in non-monogamy have been positive! (We do have some rules and ethics in how we engage in this.
I enjoy….crave…desire the exchange of thoughts and ideas on anything expressed here, so feedback from readers is appreciated. Feel free to play devil’s advocate or add your experience to the mix.
My topics of interest:
- Sexuality/ Bisexuality
- Self identity
- Androgyny/ Gender roles
- Marriage / Relationships
- Introversion and communication
- Non-Monogamy, polyamory & alternative relationships
- Female Domination & ‘light’ humiliation
- Gay/straight/Bi porn and Hentai
- Anal sex.
- Oral sex.
- Group sex
- Infidelity fantasies
- Role playing